November update: a month in confinement

Miriam in Dijon: November edition! It’s hard to believe that I’ve been in France for two months, and that even though not much has happened, I’ve still managed to occupy my time in such a way that it’s almost surprising that it’s been two months. Since one of my new year’s resolutions for 2020 (hah, jokes) was to write more, I want to keep that goal up by writing at least a monthly update of my experience doing TAPIF this time around, even if there’s not a ton of exciting things to report. As such, I present to you my recap of November!

Welcome to month two in France – a month entirely spent in confinement. On the evening of October 29th, the entire country went into “lockdown lite,” meaning you’re only allowed to leave your house for essential activities, an hour long walk within 1km of your house (this was extended to three hours within 20km on the 28th of November), or work if your job cannot be done from home, for at least four weeks. Unlike the confinement in the spring, schools remained open, which meant that I still got to go to work! Because of this, my days were relatively the same as what they were before confinement, only minus potential weekend excursions to centre ville (which I was able to do at the end of the month to see the holiday decorations around town because of the increase to 20km).

For people not living in France, you might’ve heard about the attestations needed to leave the house. Personally, I feel like people outside France make a bigger deal of this than it actually is, and it’s not an arduous task to do it. The attestation is either a piece of paper, or a QR code on your phone, that outlines why you’re outside of the house. There’s a handy Covid app that the French government wants everyone to download where you can do your attestation in five seconds on your phone (the app also notifies you if you’ve been in contact with someone who tested positive). There are spot checks randomly in France, and you will be fined if you don’t have one filled out, or if you are breaking the terms of the attestation. You have to fill out a new one every time you leave the house, but with the Covid app, it’s super easy to generate a new one whenever you need to go grocery shopping, or want to go for a walk. Luckily, I don’t have to do one every time I go to work because I have a *separate* (this is France, of course), attestation specifically for work that lasts until the end of confinement.

With the confinement elephant out of the room, I can move on to my actual November update! I wish that I had loads of interesting travel tales or exciting things I’ve discovered about Dijon, but rather, my days have been fairly repetitive. Most days are me going to work and coming back to my room, trying to be productive, and utterly failing (finding motivation in general is hard, but throw in the uncertainty of a pandemic and… big oof). On days where I don’t work, I go grocery shopping, do my laundry, or go for a walk to the jardin japonais which is within a 1km radius of where I live. It does make for less than exciting weeks, but there is something reassuring to the known, repetitive schedule. Luckily for me, boulangeries are considered essential, and remain open during confinement (how French). This means that I can go buy a baguette every other day (a full baguette lasts me two days, even if day two means that it isn’t the freshest), and sometimes even treat myself to a pain au chocolat. There are at least seven boulangeries within the 1km radius of where I live, so I’m not lost for choice.

Carrying a baguette home in the sunshine in Dijon, France
Baguettes somehow always make the day a little bit better

Teaching During Confinement

Like I said, I’m still going to work since schools are still open. One of the big changes for education during the confinement is that the mask requirement was extended to primary schools with students from six and up needing to wear a mask in class – before confinement, the minimum age was 11. Since I work in both a high school and a middle school, I’ve been able to see how government restrictions have (or haven’t) changed the way things are done. In my lycée, the school is now on a hybrid model. This means that every week, the students present at the school varies in order to minimize the number of students present on any given day. The terminales (seniors) are always here, but the premieres (juniors) and secondes (sophomores) are at the school at a 50% capacity each week. Initially, the high schools changed schedules around so that instead of students moving from class to class during passing period, it was the teachers instead, but that only lasted about a week before the hybrid model was put in place. My schedule at the high school, luckily, hasn’t changed much, but instead of having alternating A weeks and B weeks, we now do two of each letter week to ensure that all students get to have that schedule before moving to the next week. It also means that in classes where I worked with half the class while half remained with the teacher, that I’ve had to modify my lesson plans as I either now work in tandem with the teacher, or only have a quarter of a class with me at a time. This scheduling and hybrid model will be in place at least through the 20th of January.

My collège (middle school), is a little different. Since the government’s stance is that high schools have more students, their restrictions and advice for limiting contact between students was only extended to the high schools in the country. As such, my middle school is still at 100% attendance, with students moving between classes, and mingling as much as they would’ve done pre-Covid. The classrooms are usually full, which means little to no distancing between students, and passing periods is a sea of children. From discussions with some of the teachers I work with (and even some of the students), they aren’t a fan of the current model, and some would even prefer schools to shut down entirely. Both of my schools have had cases, and even more students who are cas contacts (this is defined as someone who interacted with/was within 1 meter of someone who was positive for at least 5 minutes, and usually without a mask). Luckily, in both my schools, I have some classes where I work alone, in my own room. As such, I can make sure a window is open, and have fewer students with me.

Young woman in Lucy and Yak dungarees posing in an empty French classroom, wearing a mask
Having my own classroom makes me feel very official (but not so official as to not take a cheeky self timed photo)

The Good From the Month of November

I didn’t quite want to replicate my “good, the bad, and the pandemic” format from October, but I do still want to touch on the good things that have happened this month. Even though it’s been confinement, and my freedom to explore has been severely limited, that doesn’t mean I haven’t been able to make the most of my (stuck at home) situation.

As some good news, I finally got my PIN for my bank card! It turns out, I had written my address “wrong,” because I hadn’t included the name of the school where I live in the address. As such, the person delivering the mail didn’t see my name on the mailbox, and didn’t deliver the letter. After fixing that little error, my PIN came quickly and I can finally use my French card. It’s very much a relief and has made my life so much easier this month.

France tip: As soon as you move into wherever you’ll be living in France, put your name on the mailbox. If your name isn’t on the mailbox, the facteur won’t deliver any mail addressed to you! If you live at your school, be sure to include the name of your school in your address (there’s usually a space for a complement de voie when you input in addresses) between your name and the street address to be sure you’ll receive post!

In terms of my living situation, I have settled more into my school provided housing in the last month (part of that being due to the fact that it’s where I’ve spent most of my time, if I’m honest). I’ve put up some personal photos, fairy lights, and embroidery I’ve done (with more on the way), to make the space my own. While it’s still crowded, and contains minimal storage, as Tim Gunn would say (or a variation on what he would say), I’m “mak[ing] it work.” Not to mention that other flats that I’ve looked at or found are the same size as my current living situation, but around three times the price, without considering utilities. I’m not going to lie that my rent price is a big reason for my staying put, even if it’s not an ideal living situation.

My teachers have also been really lovely. I’m very appreciative of the level of communication I have from all of my teachers, and their willingness to answer my questions. They’ve all regularly checked in on me and how I’m doing in confinement, and with my classes. My collège, in particular, has really been looking out for me. Since the beginning, my prof ref has been looking into ways to get me more hours at the school as a way to increase my monthly salary. I knew that this was a possibility, but with everything going on, didn’t expect it to go much further than a brief conversation. True to her word, my prof ref asked about it, and my school was completely onboard with the idea! Since this is France, I had to complete a dossier in order to file the request, but once it was approved, I was able to add additional hours to my schedule, which means an increase in pay as well. The new teachers I’ll be working with kept asking me if adding morning hours was okay with me, and asking if it fit in my schedule, which I found funny considering I have nothing on my schedule other than work at the moment – it’s not as if I could go do things if I had the time! I’m not sure how much additional earnings I’ll be making each month, but something is better than nothing, right? I’ll admit that it does make for long days (I went from working just three hours an afternoon to suddenly starting work at 9:20 and going to 17:20 two days a week), but again, I’ve got nothing else to do, and I get to work with a larger variety of students now.

Another good thing has been my ability to go to the boulangerie all the time. I know I’ve already mentioned it, but I truly relish buying myself a baguette every other day and having that quintessential French food item with my dinners. I feel very French walking down the sidewalk carrying a baguette from a boulangerie – it’s also a great excuse to get some steps in and to go out into the world for a bit given the current restrictions.

Other Observations

Even though my exploration of Dijon has been limited for most of the month to a 1km radius from the school where I live, and the walk to and from the mall where the grocery store is located, I’ve gotten very familiar with the surroundings. One thing on my walks that I noticed (when it was warmer), is that I got much warmer when walking than I feel I normally do. I could walk to the grocery store in late October without a coat because I felt fine (which is very abnormal for my “always cold” self). At first, I attributed it to the fact that I’m wearing a mask when I walk, and that could be contributing a little to me feeling the way that I was, temperature wise. Obviously it’s just something I’ll have to live with but I couldn’t figure it out for the life of me! Not sure if this is the reason, but every time I check my weather app, the humidity is sitting between 80-100%, which is unlike the PNW on SO many levels. I’m not sure *why* Dijon is that humid, considering there are no bodies of water anywhere near the city, but it’s constantly telling me it’s that humid! Even with copious amount of googling, I’ve been unable to find any reasons as to why it’s so humid here, so if anybody has any experience with humidity in Dijon, I am all ears!

The temperatures have also started to drop in Dijon, so we are edging slowly but surely into winter territory. It’s luckily been very sunny most days, and it hasn’t rained in at least a month (knock on wood it stays that way), so at least I’m only dealing with cold on its own. The fact that I will sometimes be walking back from work after the sun has set (which is depressingly early now), means that sometimes I’ve over bundled for my afternoon walk, but I’m dressed perfectly for the evening. Coming from the US, where all you do is dress for the short walk from your car to wherever you’re going, it’s definitely a different mindset when you get dressed every morning here.

The decorations for the holidays are also starting to appear, and with all the stress of 2020, it’s a welcome sight to see all the lights and shimmering decorations up in places. I’ll save most of my photos regarding that for December, but everywhere, from the mall, to the streets of centre-ville, have little splashes of the holidays, which in my mind, is a great pick-me-up, even if just for a second.

Christmas tree and gingerbread men at La Toison d’Or - mall in Dijon, France
A fun center piece at the mall to lift the spirits before grocery shopping

Even as restrictions ease slightly in France, there is still very much a pandemic going on, and numbers aren’t in a place to go into déconfinement, yet. My region (Bourgogne-Franche Comté), is doing the worst numbers wise in the country currently – something that started post lockdown – although my département (Côte-d’Or), is at the lower end of the nine départements in the region. It definitely frustrates me to still see people either not wearing a mask properly (I see a lot of noses, even with some students in my schools), or not wearing one at all. I’m hoping the numbers continue to drop, but I’m still very hesitant about it all.

I’m afraid that’s really been my November! Other than the increased stress of being abroad during the election (I had to give several lessons about it, while waiting for results which was fun), this month was fairly lowkey. I’m still discovering new things about my neck of the woods (for instance, when I was told explicitly by my prof ref that I was going to the wrong boulangerie and to go to another one), and getting into a routine for every day. It’s sometimes weird to think that I’m in France currently, and that this is my life for the next couple of months. It’s definitely been a different experience to what TAPIF was like for me in Angers (for more than just the obvious, pandemic reason), and most of the differences have been positive. I’m interested to see how this experience continues to roll out over the next couple weeks before the holiday break, and into the new year!

See you for an update in December! À plus!

French vocabulary for a pandemic

Even though I’ve been speaking French since I was three, no amount of lessons or immersion could’ve prepared me for the specific vocabulary needed to survive in France during a pandemic. Some of the words I knew already, just in a different context, but others were completely new to me, and as always with language learning, I had a bit of a learning curve. If you’re thinking of moving over to France soon (assuming you have the proper visa situation) or you’re just curious about French pandemic related vocab, I thought I’d write out some new words I’ve learned that might be of interest!

I sincerely hope that these words will at some point, not be a part of daily speech, but even if they aren’t, it’s a chance to learn some new French words! I’m sure the Duolingo Owl would be proud of you for that. In no particular order, here are the words that I’ve come across and learned since arriving in France.

  • Un masque – a mask
  • Le gel hydro-alcoolique – hand sanitizer
  • Gestes barrières (f) – “Barrier gestures” or things you should do in addition to wearing a mask to keep yourself, and others, safe
  • Une pandémie – a pandemic
  • Un couvre-feu – curfew
  • Le confinement – lockdown
  • Se faire dépister – to go get tested
  • Une quatorzaine – fourteen day isolation/quarantine
  • Symptômes (m) – symptoms
  • Tousser – to cough
  • Éternuer – to sneeze
  • Se laver les mains – to wash your hands
  • La santé – health
  • Cas Contact – contact case, or a person who was in contact with someone testing positive
  • Isolement – isolation
  • État d’urgence sanitaire – health crisis
  • Réanimation – ICU
  • Attestation – certificate that gives you permission to leave the house during lockdown

Obviously, this is a fairly niche realm of French vocabulary, and I hope one that won’t need to be in our lexicons forever, but it’s never a bad idea to expand your vocabulary in another language. Some of these words are used frequently in other contexts (like being sick normally, Halloween, or in the news), and others may (hopefully) not be commonplace again, but as a lover of language learning, I’m always appreciative of learning new words and phrases, regardless of if they’ll be ones that become part of my daily vocabulary.

Fun French “fact”! Covid in French is technically feminine so it is la Covid, but people use the masculine interchangeably as well. If you’re curious about why it’s feminine, the Académie Française has typed up their logic online (spoiler alert if you don’t read French: it boils down to Covid being a disease, which translates to maladie in French. Maladie is feminine, so Covid is as well! It was initially – and mistakenly – masculine because coronavirus is a virus, and virus is masculine in French. Go figure!)

Those are some French words for the pandemic! Please continue staying safe during these unprecedented times and if you’ve made learning a new language a stay at home goal (or even if you haven’t), I hope this post helps a bit!

Miriam in Dijon: a month into TAPIF

I couldn’t resist poking a little fun with the title, considering the popularity of Emily in Paris (yes, I’ve watched it, and yes, I have a lot of thoughts). If Netflix wants to commission a show about what it’s actually like living in France, I’m definitely available 😉

I’ve been in France for a month now, so thought it was high time to start writing about my experience at the moment, especially since I’m already seeing so many differences between my current experience, and the one I had two years ago in Angers. We’re currently in the two week Toussaint break (I know, having two weeks off after barely working for two weeks seems unreal, but it’s like this every year), but it’s nice to have a somewhat introductory period before the “real” work begins at la rentrée. I figured I’d take advantage of my downtime, and write a little.

For so many reasons, I knew that coming to France this year wasn’t going to be a walk in the park, but as I’ve mentioned before, this month has definitely been tougher than I expected it to be. I’m sure I’m a bit biased because everything went *so* smoothly in Angers, that anything even the slightest bit off from that path would seem rough, but my experiences so far in comparison to Angers could not be more different from each other, and for more than just the obvious reasons. Without further ado, I present to you my first month in France with “the good, the bad, and the pandemic.”

A young woman stands in Place Francois Rude in Dijon with arms outstretched

The Good

Even though I’m struggling with a lot in Dijon, that doesn’t mean that there haven’t been good things about my month in France so far. Even though the housing provided for me by my lycée is very basic, I’ve been making it my own, and am appreciative of having my own space during a time when I’m not sure I’d feel comfortable sharing with others. I’ll admit that I wasn’t thrilled initially, but after that feeling of being completely overwhelmed by everything wore off, I’m less in a “I must leave now” kind of mood when it comes to my living accommodation. I’m sure part of it was that housing was *so* smooth and easy in Angers, and I didn’t have quite that experience moving into school housing in Dijon, or even looking for alternative options. I have my own bathroom, fridge, and microwave, and although I do have hot plates for cooking, they’re a bit too high for me to reach safely (being short always has some drawbacks). That being said, I can eat in the school cantine four nights a week for dinner because there are students who board at the school during the week. I’ve yet to take advantage of it because my French bank card still isn’t properly set up (more on that later), but hopefully I’ll be able to do that after the break.

My schools themselves have been lovely, and the whole process seems much more organized than it was when I was working in Angers. Perhaps it’s the fact that I’m working at the secondary level rather than primary, or perhaps it’s just the way things have played out this year compared to last time. Within a week of observing at the lycée, I was given my computer log in, copier codes, keys to classrooms (something I was never given last time), and I had submitted the necessary paperwork for my application to social security (the healthcare system in France), and transport reimbursement forms through the secretary at my school. The students I have are also all seemingly more excited about English than the primary kids I had in Angers (could be a factor of age), and I’m even getting to tackle some interesting subjects with them like political cartoons and their meanings, or even doing literary commentary on The Tempest to help the terminales (seniors) prepare for the oral commentary section of the BAC. I can definitely sense that I’ll be able to engage with the students on deeper material than I could with the primary students I had, and even though it’s slightly terrifying to have that much free reign during a class period (I’ve been told with many of my classes to do what I want with them), it’s exciting to know that I have so many possibilities of material to cover with them, and that they’re excited to speak the language.

I spend half of my time in the lycée and half of my time at a collège (middle school) about a 20 minute walk away. It’s interesting working with such a variety of levels (sixth to twelfth grade is a wide range of ages), but it’s also interesting to see how teaching English works for different classes. Sixth grade is when English classes start for all French students (anything before that in public school is not mandatory for the schools to implement), so I’m working with some students who are just beginning their journey with English, and some who have been working on it for almost six years. Both of my schools have an International section, and I work with classes in that section, but also classes outside of it, which can make for a cool glimpse into different spheres of French education. I’m very appreciative as well of all the teachers I’ve been assigned to work with as they are all very encouraging of helping me figure out what to do with the students, and very communicative about their goals of having a language assistant in their classroom.

The organization and positivity I get from my schools aren’t the only good things, I’ll admit. I’ve been able to do some exploring of Dijon itself over the past month, and I don’t think I’ll ever get over how cool it is to see old, half-timbered houses nestled in between modern buildings. A lot of Europe has the perfect blend of the old and the new, and Dijon definitely has that as well. You might say it’s Dijon-vu (sorry, I had to throw in a Dijon related pun somehow) to see that perfect blend of eras, but it’s hard to get over it when you come from the US. I obviously haven’t done everything there is to do in the city, but the things I have discovered have been super cool (for lack of a better word).

One of the better days I’ve had in Dijon was discovering the parcours de la chouette. This is a trail that goes through centre-ville, marked by little triangles on the ground with owls (a chouette is a kind of owl) that brings you to historic landmarks within the city. I bought a little booklet from the tourist office to give myself context of what I was looking at, and doing the whole pathway really brings you on a quasi journey through time. It’s called the parcours de la chouette because carved into the building of the Notre-Dame church (no, not the famous one), is a small sculpture of a chouette. You’re supposed to touch it when you go by for good luck! I found myself actually having fun trying to follow the owls on the ground and going on a scavenger hunt to find the next one when they seemingly disappeared. Part of the journey involves the Tour de Philippe de Bon, which is a tower you can climb (316 steps) to get a spectacular panoramic view of the city. It’s only 5€, but definitely worth the price of admission.

View from tour Philippe le bon in Dijon, France
A view worthy of a 316 step climb (mask only removed for photo purposes, and with insurance of nobody else around)

The Bad

As I’ve already said, it hasn’t been the smoothest of times adjusting to life in Dijon. Sometimes I wonder if my difficulties are stemming from the fact that everything seemed so much easier in Angers, but while I’m sure that’s part of it, I know it’s not the cause of every difficulty I’ve faced. Moving abroad is stressful enough without the added weight of a global health situation that you can’t forget is ongoing, and it was a big lifestyle change for me to go from being unemployed for six months to having a daily routine (in another country, no less). No experience is ever 100% positive, so I think it’s important to also touch on the less than fabulous things that happen when you move abroad (or do anything in life, really).

The main thing that’s been causing me problems this time around is my bank. Opening the account was painless and easy, but three weeks after getting my card, I still don’t have a PIN for it. This means, even after three weeks of having my card, I still can’t use it (in France, they mail you your PIN separately from your card). Every time I ask my bank why I don’t have it yet, they tell me they don’t know, and that it should’ve arrived by now. As such, I’m having to have them reorder it for me, and once again, hope it arrives through the mail. The one problem with this is since I live at my school, and we’re on les vacances, I won’t be getting mail during that time as there’s no one here other than myself and another assistant who also lives in the internat. I’m very grateful that I got a credit card over the summer with no foreign transaction fees as most businesses are asking for customers to use sans-contact methods of payment (France has contactless cards, but other than having to insert and then sign for everything, my card works just fine, thankfully). So although I have a French bank account set up, and have a card for it, I can’t actually use it, and who knows when I’ll be able to do so.

As much as I also really enjoy the classes with which I’ll be working, I am sad that I won’t be able to have the same “first-name” basis relationship I had with my students at the primary level. Although in some classes I work with half of the class at a time, or even the whole class at once, there are others where I see a group of six once between now and the December break at my lycée. I’ll probably be able to at least memorize the names of all of my middle school students (assuming that I can figure out who is who from just their eyes and hair – all of my students wear masks in the classroom), but that’ll be the case only for some of my high school level classes. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it’ll just be a different experience with the students, and sometimes I miss the relationship I had with my students in Angers. That being said, it might be too early in the whole scheme of things to really be making any judgement calls on that particular aspect of things.

I figured I’d touch briefly on what makes my housing situation not the best, especially since having done the program before, I know how it’s not a guarantee to be offered school (and low cost) housing, so I do want to clarify that I’m immensely grateful for it, and I am super making do with what I have. Other than the hot plate situation being an unsafe one, the other issue for me is the lack of outlets in the space. There is ONE (1) outlet for the entire room where I live, and of course, it’s on the other side of the room from where my bed is! I brought an extension cord with me so that worked in my favor, but I still have a cord running through the center of my room (insert laughing emoji here). I know this is very much as 21st century problem, but here we are. There’s also the random thing that I can’t open my blinds for most of the day when school is in session because my window looks directly out onto the path the students walk to get into school. I live in the building where the students board, but luckily, I live on my own floor and only have to deal with the sound of the students entering and exiting in the evening and morning (they aren’t allowed in the building during the day).

Another bad thing? Spiders. I’m pretty positive I never saw a single spider in the entire time I lived in Angers, and yet, in Dijon, within four weeks I’ve dealt with three decently sized arachnids. I know, I shouldn’t be afraid of them, but I AM, and my room is not big enough to hide from them until they disappear. If anyone has any advice for ways to prevent spiders from entering your domicile, I am ALL EARS.

The Pandemic

I couldn’t go a blog post without mentioning this, unfortunately! It is absolutely a part of daily life in France, and especially in Dijon, considering it’s a metropole (and all of France is currently in an état d’urgence sanitaire). I find it fascinating how quickly my brain adapted from being in a situation where I only left the house for essential activities to one that involves leaving the house almost every day, but that also means that it’s super easy for your brain to forget what’s actually happening. Without everyone wearing masks in the street, it would be easy to go to centre-ville or the mall on a Saturday and think things were completely normal. I’ll be honest, I was massively disappointed in how many French people I see wearing their masks incorrectly, or just not wearing them at all. I also see so many French people dining en terrasse, and I know that’s a big part of French culture, but I know that I, personally, am still not comfortable doing that when it means removing your mask in close proximity to others, even when you’re outside. I know that a reconfinement is the last thing they want to have happen, but it seems like we’re inching closer and closer to that being a possibility as France’s numbers keep growing, and people seem to have taken a “let’s just live with it” mindset (this could be a gross generalization, I know, but is just what I’ve observed in Dijon). Coming from the US, it’s been super disheartening to see how the French government, and its citizens, are handling the current second wave, given that they did manage to have it under control by summer.

It’s also harder to justify going out for kicks and giggles when it’s technically not “safe” to do so, if that makes sense. Usually, I’d spend my free time going out and about, exploring Dijon, but as I’m trying to minimize my interactions with people that aren’t in my daily sphere of interactions, it does make that a little harder. This also extends to the breaks we get as teaching assistants. Usually, I’d be planning trips to other countries during my two weeks off, but given how quickly numbers and restrictions can change, that’s not really a feasible, or safe, course of action at the moment. Not to mention, even though I have enough masks, I’m always super aware of how many I have left before my next laundry day (I have to walk 15 minutes to the closest laverie, so I’m not doing laundry as often as I normally would do it). It can make the days where I don’t work a little longer and harder, if I’m honest, to have to weigh the risk of doing something versus staying indoors when I don’t absolutely have to be doing that activity. This has led me to go on walks in my neighborhood and discover where I’m living, but it’s not as interesting as everything in centre-ville (at least, to me).

For those of you who aren’t following what’s happening in France (which I understand, especially if you’re following what’s happening in the US), as of midnight on Friday, 23 October, 54 départements entered into having a couvre-feu, a curfew, that will last for at least the next six weeks. The département where I live is one of those 54. This means that between the hours of 21h (9pm) and 6h (6am), you aren’t allowed to be outside of your residence without an attestation. I figured it was coming for Dijon, but the step to make it for the whole département, and for so many of them, speaks volumes, unfortunately. It does feel like France is hurdling towards another lock down, but maybe these new restrictions will help minimize the chance of that happening.

Selfie from the top of the tour de Philippe de bon in Dijon
Are masked selfies going to become the next social media #trend?
Jardin Japonais in Dijon

That’s kind of what I’ve been up to and experiencing in the past month in France! It’s hard to think that I really haven’t been here that long, and yet, with everything that 2020 has thrown at us, it doesn’t seem that out of the ordinary for me (perhaps because I’ve been mentally planning on being in Europe in this time frame since April). I’m hoping to do some local day trips during the break, which I promise to write about if I go through with them (only if it is safe to do so), and really devote some time to planning class periods for my students, since I’m properly leading them this time around! I have a lot more free time than when I was in Angers due to the way I’m scheduled, so hopefully I’ll be able to update often (assuming I get up to interesting things), and keep this blog alive. For now, it’s back to the baguettes and being a flâneur (contrary to the belief spouted in Emily in Paris, this is not something that all French people are, and I am on les vacances, hence the flân-ing). À plus!

Traveling to France (during a pandemic)

[I absolutely meant to publish this shortly after my arrival but time got away from me so please excuse the delay in putting this up on my blog!!]

I would argue that the largest mental (and actual) block for me in relation to participating in TAPIF this year was the actual element of getting to France. I’m happy to say that I survived it and that some of the fears I had conjured up for myself in my head were not as big of issues as I had thought they would be. Traveling to Europe is always an adventure from the west coast of the US, but even more so when there’s the added stress of a global pandemic and health concerns on top of the long journey.

I’ve done the flight over to France before, and there were several big differences this time around. Mainly, the requirement of mask wearing at all times except when eating or drinking. I went fully kitted in a face mask and face shield, which I wore for the entire duration of my journey (over 24 hours from start to finish). I was concerned about how this would feel, seeing as I haven’t really worn a mask for longer periods of time than it takes to run errands since wearing them became a requirement. I honestly didn’t notice it, and was able to sleep while wearing it. I used a cloth mask and other than the relief I felt when I took it off after everything was done, I was generally fine with wearing it.

Preparing for flight two of three

As a new requirement in light of the current pandemic, France is requiring travelers from the US to get a COVID test 72 hours before travel. You then have to present the negative test to board the flight. I was lucky that my health care provider has a travel clinic, so I was able to easily, and quickly get the test and results before my flights, but this was an additional thing to add to my “to-do” list prior to leaving.

My journey started before the sun rose on September 23rd. Since my first flight left from the Portland airport at 8:00am. I got to the airport around 6:00am, and it took very little time to check my bag and clear security. PDX felt pretty empty, and it was very easy for me to find a place to sit that encountered very little foot traffic. I was able to sit and collect myself, because I’ll admit, I felt very anxious about the whole travel experience. They boarded the flight from back to front, and gave us all a wipe to use upon boarding. I flew Delta, and they’re currently blocking middle seats, or only allowing one person in a row of two. The flight to Atlanta still felt pretty full, even with that reduction in number of people on board, though. I was definitely very aware of others in my section, and when they were eating/drinking, especially since this flight was the first time I’d really been around a crowd of people since March. Given that I had an early morning prior to my flight, and that I had been super anxious leading up to take off, I tried to sleep for as much of the flight as possible. I managed to watch one film, but I’m happy to say I slept a decent amount.

I had around a two and a half hour layover in Atlanta, and after transiting to the international terminal, only had a little under two hours before my flight took off, so even less before boarding. I had access to the Delta Lounge, so I used that space to find an area where I felt comfortable taking my mask off to eat. I also took a decent number of snacks with me from the lounge for the rest of my journey.

Due to current travel restrictions, and me being a dual citizen, I wasn’t able to enter France directly from the US. As such, I had to fly to France via Ireland. From Atlanta, I took the seven hour flight to Dublin, again, flying Delta. I’m pretty sure there were under 50 people on that flight in total – it felt very empty. The boarding area was essentially deserted before boarding started. Dinner was served almost immediately after take-off, which felt off given that I had just eaten in the lounge not too long before I boarded! The highlight had to be the Ben & Jerry’s ice cream pint, even though it made me absolutely freezing for a while afterwards. I managed to sleep through most of the flight, even if I was awoken frequently by bouts of turbulence. We arrived in Dublin early, just shortly after 6am. Due to how empty the airport was, I cleared customs very quickly, and then had six hours to kill before my next flight. There’s very little open in the Dublin airport, a surefire indication of what travel looks like these days. I even had to buy bottled water because there weren’t any water fountains open for use! I didn’t go through security for probably around four hours to avoid being stuck, and I’m glad I didn’t as there was truly nothing open on the other side. I was able to breathe some fresh Irish air for a bit and have some tea to calm my sleep deprived nerves before I eventually went through security, and headed to the gate for my next flight.

Dinner on board Delta flight to Dublin
Dinner on the flight to Dublin (with the sun very much still shining)

At this point, the fatigue was truly setting in, but I was only about halfway through my journey to France. Following my six hour layover, I boarded an AerLingus flight (I had to do two airlines for this trip) to Paris. Before boarding, every passenger had to fill out an attestation de déplacement, which indicated why we were traveling to France and contact information for us to fill in about ourselves. This flight was also fairly empty, and I managed to get a row to myself, which made me feel a little more at ease. Luckily, this was a super short flight and I managed to sleep through all of it so in no time at all, I was in France!

Rainbow overhead a plane sitting on the tarmac in the Dublin airport
A rainbow appeared while waiting to board my flight in Dublin

You’d think that landing in France would mean that the adventure was over, but nooooo, it wasn’t the end, yet! After clearing customs again, and retrieving my bags, I got a cab to take me to the Gare de Lyon. I could’ve taken the RER but between the stress of the volume of people that would be, and the amount of bags I had, a cab seemed the more sensible option. Traffic was horrid so that took a good 40 minutes, followed by a mad dash to purchase train tickets in the station for a train to take me to Dijon. There are ample trains going to Dijon from Paris, but I wasn’t keen on having to wait around in the station any longer than I absolutely had to, especially as I was there during peak commuting hours. I managed to snag a ticket with 10 minutes to departure and bolted to the train itself. The train journey took a little under 2 hours, and then I was in Dijon! By the time I actually stepped off the train, it was fast approaching 7pm on September 24th. I’d booked myself a hotel near the Gare for the night to avoid having to navigate my way around town too much as the sun set and without phone service. By the time I got in for the night, I was absolutely exhausted and ready for bed. I had some dinner because I hadn’t really eaten since my flight to Dublin (it’s hard feeling comfortable removing your mask, even if it’s just for a quick snack bite) and I cannot quite explain the relief I felt in taking off my mask and laying down in a proper bed. All in all, the journey took about 26 hours, not counting the jet lag of the 9 hour time zone difference.

Now the true adventure begins!

Getting settled in Dijon

My first week in Dijon has been a mix of stress (a very frequently used word on this blog, I’ll admit), excitement, and fatigue. There’s a decent amount of things you need to do when you arrive in France before work actually starts, so I set to doing those right away, to varying degrees of success.

I moved into school provided housing at the lycée where I’ll be teaching, and unfortunately found that the set up isn’t going to work for me on a long term basis. That sent me into a spiral of trying to plan alternative housing accommodations since I had hoped the school housing would work for me. I’ll write more about that later if I ever resolve it, or what I decide to do. There are a couple of things in addition to housing that you need to sort ASAP after arriving in France. Here are the ones I tackled:

Setting up your phone to work in France

There are a couple of options of ways that you can handle using your phone while doing TAPIF, but the easiest is to purchase a SIM card from a French provider and swap it out with your US (or other country’s) card. I’ve done this for all my abroad adventures and it works like a charm.

The first thing you’ll need to do is check if your phone is unlocked. Depending on your provider, they may require you to pay the phone off in full before it can be unlocked. If your phone is not unlocked, it won’t work with another provider’s SIM. Once your phone is unlocked, you’re good to go.

I’ve used Free mobile both times I’ve been in France, and had no problems. They have a 100gb data plan for 19,99€/month, which includes unlimited voice calls and texts, and calls to the US (although you can use WhatsApp over wifi/data if you don’t want to call the US with your phone, or buy the plan that includes those calls). They also have smaller plans if you don’t want to pay that much, but since my accommodation doesn’t have Wifi, I sprang for the bigger plan. You can, of course, upgrade or downgrade at any time for the next month. I went into a Free store in the local mall and was able to purchase my SIM that way. You can use any credit card to purchase it, and then change your card on file online once you get your French bank account sorted. You get to pick your phone number, as well! You’ll pay for your SIM and your plan at the same time, so be sure to budget 10€ for the card itself, but that’s a one time fee. Afterwards, you can insert the SIM (be sure to tape your old one down somewhere for when you return if you want to be able to use it again) and start using your phone! You can use an American card to purchase this, and then switch your details online to your French card.

Opening a French bank account

Dealing with French banks is one of my all time biggest annoyances of living in France. Everything is so bureaucratic and full of hoops. The first step to opening a bank account is setting up an appointment to do just that. You’ll go into a bank (of your choice – you can do some research of which banks are best for your area), and ask for a RDV (rendez-vous) to open an account. They’ll then give you a date when they have openings. Don’t be afraid to say no if they don’t have one soon enough for you. You need your RIB and bank account information by October 10 (15 this year) in order to be paid for the first month on time (if you don’t, you’ll still get it, but with November’s paycheck instead of at the end of October).

I visited five banks before I found one with an appointment under a week from when I asked them about appointments. Everyone was booked solid, some even up to three weeks out, which obviously wasn’t going to work. If you’re set on using a certain bank, you can go to different branches within your city since each branch has their own calendar. It’s possible one may have earlier openings than the others. If you’re like me with no preference, you can hop around from bank to bank until you find one with an appointment early enough for you. I’ve been told you can try calling banks as well to get a RDV, but I never got through to a real person when I tried that. You will most likely (it’s super unlikely) not be able to have a same day appointment, but you best chance at getting same day would be to start your visits as soon as they open. If you’re American, be sure to ask if the bank is willing to open an account for you. When I was in Angers, I had several banks that wouldn’t work with me because of the additional paperwork involved, and while it’s annoying, it’s better to know before you’ve opened the account than while you’re sitting at the desk sorting it.

After six banks visited, I found one that had an appointment within four days so I jumped on that. My appointment took about an hour from start to finish, and was relatively painless. I ended up with CIC and am pretty happy with how the appointment went. I turned in all the necessary paperwork (listed below) and signed a couple of forms for the bank. As an American, you’ll also have to sign a FATCA agreement, as well as fill out a W9. If the bank doesn’t bring this up, be sure to mention it since you HAVE to do it, but most banks know as soon as you say you’re an American. When they ask for your numero d’identification fiscale, you’ll use your American Social Security number. Some banks have a monthly fee to have a card with them, and CIC does, but it’s being waived for six months for me. A six month waiver is fairly common, especially for people under 25.

You can also get SIM cards and phone plans through your bank, sometimes at lower costs than other plans, so be sure to check that out as an option!

After you open a bank account, you’ll have to wait for the card to arrive. With CIC, I got a text when it arrived and I was able to pick it up in person. I had my appointment on a Tuesday morning and got the card Saturday morning. The PIN will arrive in the mail, and then you can add money into your account and use the card from there!

Bank tidbit: banks in France close for lunch at 12 and remain closed until sometime between 13:30-14:00. They are also closed on Sunday and Monday, and some branches operate only until 12/12:30 on Saturday. Keep that in mind when planning your bank visits.

Documents you need when opening a bank account
  • Arrêté de Nomination
  • Passport (with visa if applicable) (if you’re a dual citizen, you need both passports)
  • Justificatif de domicile (if you don’t have housing yet, ask your school if they can write one of these out for you to use at the appointment. You won’t be able to open an account without this)
Dijon centre ville
The view from outside my bank. Half timbered houses are all over in centre-ville!

Buying a Transport Card

Depending on where you live relative to your school, you’ll want to look into the transport options. You might be able to walk to work, but you might not be able to walk to the grocery store or other places you want to visit. As such, you might want to get a transport card. Each city has their own system (in Angers, it was called Irigo, in Dijon, it’s called Divia). You can find the information for your city’s transport system by googling “transport en commun CITY.” Most cities allow you to buy one trip tickets, or passes of varying lengths. It’s recommended you buy the monthly passes, since that’s the only kind of pass for which you can get a 50% reimbursement through TAPIF (some academies allow reimbursement for weekly passes). When I was in Angers, the monthly pass started whatever day you used it first, but in Dijon, the monthly pass is valid for the month, so I bought the October pass (valid starting October 1), and then a 10 journey pass to tide me over until October starts.

I had to go in person to the Divia office in centre ville to buy the card, and I had to do the same in Angers. You’ll need a piece of ID (I used my driver’s license, but a passport would work as well), and depending on the city, you might need to provide your own picture. Then you get a plastic card which you can use when you travel on public transport and can refill every month!

Divia transport card
My transport card – complete with horribly lit photo taken in the Divia office!

Orientation

After getting everything sorted, it felt like in no time at all, I was having orientation on October 1. Orientation felt slightly odd in that it was the largest group of people I’d been in a room with in several months, and it felt very different from the orientation I had in Angers when I did the program last time. Firstly, it was at a high school in Dijon, and everyone from the entire academie was there (or at least, was invited to be there – not everyone had arrived in France at that point, unfortunately). In Angers, it had just been primary assistants based in or around Angers, so where there were 14 of us there, there were easily at least 40 in Dijon, and that wasn’t everybody! Secondly, everyone was masked, and although it felt social and we got to mingle, it didn’t have quite the same feeling as I imagine it would in other years. We had small information sessions in the morning about what paperwork we need to turn in by October 15th to get the 70% advance on payment in October (the way French salaries work, at least within the departement d’education, is that you get a 70% advance of your salary the first month, and then the final 30% is added onto your next month’s paycheck), how to apply for sécu and what that looks like in France, and what next steps were for those in France on a visa.

After lunch, we played a round of Kahoot with the quiz questions being about the assistant position, and then dived into teaching exercises and ways to get the students engaged in the material. We broke off into language groups (Dijon has assistants for English, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, Arabic, and German) to discuss what issues French students might come across with our language (such as the “th” sound, or certain vowel pronunciations for example). That took a decent amount of time and then it was the end of orientation!

I’m hoping to be able to explore Dijon a bit more in the coming weeks, which I will of course write about as I discover more. I’ve already been caught out in a flood warning level downpour, and I’m hoping that isn’t the norm here, but I bought some rain boots just in case (just when I’d mentioned in my packing post that I didn’t need to bring them!) I’ve already been in Dijon a week, and I start my observations properly on Monday so I’ll get to see what my classes are like both at the lycée and the collège where I’ll be teaching, and get a feel for the students English levels. I’m nervous, but also excited about being able to actually do something, and to figure out a routine for my days. Things seem much more organized with my schools in Dijon than they did in Angers – I’ve already visited the secrétaire at my lycée who had a packet prepared for me with printer codes, computer logins, and paperwork for me to fill out for sécu and for the rectorat.

I’ll admit that I’m feeling like I’m having a harder time adjusting to Dijon than I did to Angers. Maybe that’s because I don’t remember the stress or hard days in the beginning anymore, but I think it’s because I truly lucked out with everything in Angers. Even though I didn’t have the most organized schools, everything worked really smoothly from the beginning. I seem to be hitting wall after wall in Dijon, and it’s hard to stay positive about everything when that’s the case. I realize I’m not the first assistant to deal with housing issues, or to have French bureaucracy backfire on me and make my life more difficult, but with the added stress of the current health situation, I’m not going to lie, I’m finding everything to be rather difficult this time around. I’m just hoping that things will start looking brighter soon.

That’s the French adventure as it stands so far, wish me luck as it continues!

The first picture I ever took in Dijon!

Packing for TAPIF

One of the bigger stressors when it comes to doing TAPIF (or moving abroad for any period of time, like study abroad), is packing. There’s always a mild panic of have I brought too much? or have I brought too little? or what if I forget some oddly specific thing that can’t be bought where I’m going?? This is now my third time packing for a lengthy stay abroad, so I’d like to think myself an expert (or at least, someone with some experience… maybe expert is giving myself too much credit). For that reason, I thought I’d write about the tips I have for packing in preparation for TAPIF, and how to make the most of your (potentially) limited luggage. This post is a bit long so feel free to scroll down to the bottom this of the post to go to my packing list!

Every time I’ve had to put together my suitcases for my journeys abroad, my packing list has gotten shorter and shorter. I’ve learned what I actually need, what’s nice to have, and what absolutely isn’t a necessity (I brought Wellies with me when I studied abroad and wore them ONCE. They’ve never come with me since, even though I love them). The last time I did TAPIF, I travelled with a large checked suitcase, a carry-on, and a backpack. Even having done the packing debacle before I did TAPIF last time, I still ended up bringing things I didn’t wear, AND managing to forget things that might’ve been important. I’ll be traveling with the same luggage restrictions this time around (with a 20kg limit on my checked bag). Fingers crossed I get it slightly more right this time! You can bring more or less luggage, but remember that you’ll have to schlep everything you bring with you through the airport (possibly more than one if you have layovers), and carry it through all the transit you’ll need to get to wherever you’re placed. Only bring what you can comfortably carry/get by moving around with on your own.

Important packing tip: Make sure you put any prescription medication, along with emergency toiletries, and anything else you can’t live without or that is hard to replace (like your retainers) in your carry on! If the airline makes you check your carry on because of limited room, be sure to move those items into your personal backpack/purse!

What to pack

My general rule of thumb when it comes to figuring out how much to pack, is to first figure out your laundry cycle for clothes. Do you do laundry every week? Biweekly? Once a month? Then determine how many clothes you need for that amount of time and pack that, plus some extras (in case you travel for longer than your laundry cycle, or something happens). That’s a good estimate of what to bring, but of course, you can bring more or less, depending on how often you want to rewear clothes, and how fashionable you want to be.

The thing that always gets me, and takes up a ton of room, is shoes. I always bring too many pairs, and I have such an awful time deciding which ones to bring with me! Shoes definitely add a lot of weight, so you don’t want to weigh your suitcase down too much (most airlines have weight limits for checked bags, be sure to check them carefully before you set off to the airport, or you might have to pay for overweight bags), but it’s obviously personal preference how many pairs you want to bring. Think about comfortable shoes that you could walk in for a while if you travel, or if your bus stop is closed and you have to walk to the next one (true story, this did happen to me once). Flip flops are also good shoes to have as shower shoes for travel. I also recommend trying to stuff some socks/tights/small items into your shoes if possible to maximize space!

Another area of packing where you can reduce items is toiletries. Almost everything you use in your daily life toiletry wise can be found in France. This means you can save a lot of space by not packing a full carton (is it a carton?) of shampoo or a full tube of toothpaste to last you your whole contract. I usually bring a travel sized shampoo and toothpaste in my carry on in case I have my bags delayed, or in the case of France, can’t move into my permanent housing situation immediately. You’ll want just enough to tide you over until you can go to the shops/get settled, but you can buy most big name brands in France. The one toiletry I do bring with me is my face washes because I’ve gotten quite particular with my routine, and my skin always acts up when I switch it up – but that’s personal preference!

Random things to bring that might not have crossed your mind: laundry and lingerie bags. Makes washing easier and easy to transport (although a big grocery bag could also work if your closest laverie requires walking). Lingerie bags are great for keeping your socks together, and a potential necessity this year due to needing masks. Another thing: I also know assistants who brought spices/food items that aren’t available in France as a way to stave off the home sickness, but I personally rank this low on my packing priority list (to each their own, though)!

Clothes for different weathers

The first thing you should do once you have your placement (and you can even start this a bit after finding out your academie), is to look up the climate. Will you be in a mountainous region where it snows and gets quite cold during the winter? Are you in a temperate part of France where it might rain a lot? What will the average temperature be? Depending on what the average weather in your area looks like, you’ll want to pack the most clothes for that weather – keeping in mind the professional looking clothes you’ll need for teaching. Professional being jeans that aren’t ripped and clothes you’d wear as a “teacher”, but not so professional as to need a blazer or suit/tie combination. My rule of thumb is one step up from what the students would wear, but some schools are more lax/strict than others. Then, pack a couple of clothes for opposite weather. For instance, I’m bringing two pairs of shorts in case I visit somewhere warmer (assuming travel becomes possible), but no more than that since I won’t need them in Dijon! As a side note regarding shorts, women in France don’t seem to wear them – I’m not sure why, but it’s not something you see often, just as something to consider while packing!

Autumn/winter in France is not the warmest, so if you don’t have one, you’ll definitely want a warmer coat, preferably a waterproof one as well (or two separate coats, if you like). You can plan on investing in one once you get to France to reduce your packing load, but as I’ve already got one (that I bought in France ironically), I’ll be stuffing it into my suitcase. Bring scarves (or at least A scarf – scarves are very French so it’s a perfect way to blend in easily, but can also be bought in France), a hat, and a lightweight pair of gloves for potential early morning bus waits. My biggest packing tip for France is LAYERS. Bring clothes that you can layer, like lightweight shirts (t-shirts and long sleeved shirts), sweaters, cardigans etc… That way, you can mix and match depending on the weather, and don’t need entirely different outfits! Last time I did the program, my schools did not have great heating, so I was super thankful for my sweaters and layers (since wearing a coat in class is not comme il faut).

How to pack

The biggest packing hurdle is actually setting down to doing it. My first step is always to create a packing checklist (which I’ll post below), and to break it up into sections. I have four: toiletries, clothing, electronics, and miscellaneous (which is segmented into paperwork and personal effects). You can also then further divide into carry on and checked bag, but I’m more of a “wherever it fits” kind of gal when it comes to packing. You can obviously make your own categories for what works best for you and your packing style, this is just the way that makes the most sense on paper for me!

I kind of vaguely start the packing process pretty early, but don’t really dive into the real packing until like a week before I leave. I have a box set aside in my room where anything that isn’t clothing (mostly toiletries) that I’m definitely taking goes, and it’s grown slowly bigger over the past few weeks. That way, when it’s time to pack, I don’t have to do as much searching for various items. This is especially helpful if you’re buying toiletries/non clothing items for France so you don’t risk using them before you leave!

Another important packing tip: Use space bags! They’re a great way to reduce the amount of space your clothes take up. If you’re planning on staying in an AirBnb or temporary housing for a bit in France before moving somewhere permanently, I’d recommend dedicating a space bag for those clothes so you don’t need to undo and redo a bunch of space bags before you unpack for good. I also usually use Ziplock bags for underwear, bras, and socks as another way to reduce the space things take up in my suitcase. I do the Ziplock method for small trips as well, so definitely keep them in your suitcase after you unpack! Packing cubes can also come in handy for organizing and taking up less room, but they don’t reduce the space taken up in your suitcase as much as space bags.

I’ve always been told to look at everything you want to bring, and then reduce the amount by 50%, and that is how much you should take. I’ve never ascribed to that rule, necessarily, but I think it does showcase that you undoubtedly need less than you think you do. It’s a good idea while you make your checklist to think about what you’d wear if you weren’t abroad. I find that I tend to think I wear things more often than I do, and when I really think about it, I realize that a lot of the clothes in my closet don’t need to come with me because I don’t wear them that often here – why would I wear them often in France? Some questions to ask yourself might be: Do you really wear that sweater you’ve put on your list that often? Are you planning on going out enough to warrant multiple outfits for it? How easily can you wash that outfit? (this one is important if you’ve got a lot of dry clean only clothes… do you want to be searching for a dry cleaner if something happens to your favorite dress?)

I do want to stress that you should bring clothes that make you feel happy and clothes that you think you’ll wear. If it’s something that you might wear once or twice if a special event happens, it might be worth rethinking that, especially if it takes up a lot of space. However, if it makes you happy, and confident, and you want to wear it, go for it! I bought a new pair of dungarees over the summer and I’m bringing them because I can’t WAIT to show them off, and have an excuse to wear them. I think packing for TAPIF is finding a balance, because (in normal years, who knows with the current health situation) you won’t be in the classroom 7/7/24 and you might want to switch some things up while you’re there. Sometimes it’s worth having a pile of “if there’s room” clothes off to the side while you pack. If you put everything you definitely need/want to bring in your suitcase and have some extra room/pounds to spare, start pulling from that pile. This is also a good way to determine what clothes you could potentially live without in France.

My Packing List

As promised, here are my packing lists divided into categories for reference. Obviously you can add or remove based on what fits your needs, but if you’re trying to figure out where to start, hopefully this can be a somewhat helpful guide! Since I haven’t actually packed yet, this is all subject to change, but this is at least what’s on paper for me right now. I’ll start with my generic list of clothes:

Clothing I plan on packing

  • Shirts (long sleeve, and short sleeve. Since Dijon isn’t the warmest climate, I prioritize long sleeve, and only bring 3-4 short sleeve shirts)
  • Sweaters (three sweater tops that I wear as shirts, a crew neck sweater as an outer layer, a North Face sweater as another outer layer, and a sweatshirt)
  • Zip up vest
  • Cardigans (2-3)
  • Jeans (I usually bring 3-4 pair, but I live in them so that’s why)
  • Dress (I pack one in case I ever feel the need or desire to dress up)
  • Bras (sports and normal)
  • Socks (at least two weeks’ worth of pairs because one always gets lost in the dryer at some point)
  • Tights (1-2 pair)
  • Underwear (again, my estimate is two weeks’ worth)
  • Pajamas (I usually pack at least two pair: one pajama shorts and one pajama pants. Especially a pair I feel comfortable wearing in a hostel type travel situation)
  • Bath robe (because I am a little bougie at times)
  • Thermal underwear
  • Scarves (I have two: a heavy winter one, and a lightweight spring one) + hat + pair of gloves
  • Coats (rain coat and peacoat – can be bought in France to save room)
  • Work out shirts (I bring 2-3 tank tops, and 2-3 t-shirts. Enough for a week of working out every week day and some to spare).
  • Work out shorts/leggings (I only bring one pair of Nike shorts, and one pair of Primark leggings since I’m not the hardest work out person)
  • Shoes (number of pairs to be determined)
  • Dungarees (I have one pair)
  • Duvet (highly recommend NOT packing this if you don’t already have one. I bought one in France last time and since I already have several at home, it makes sense to try and bring it. No guarantees it’ll fit, though!)
  • Masks (a necessity for this year)
  • Lingerie + laundry bag
  • Single top sheet (France tends not to use top sheets and since I don’t fancy having to remove my duvet cover every week to wash it, I bring a top sheet so that’s all I have to wash)
  • Prescription medication that doesn’t fit in my toiletry bag (but still put in carry on suitcase)

Next, we have my packing list for toiletries. I’ve broken this up into what’s going into the checked bag and the carry on bag. Some things might have to be switched around depending on the size of things you want to take because of TSA restrictions, but again, it’s a rough guide. I have a large toiletry bag (soft shelled) where I store all of the checked toiletries, and a smaller bag that fits in my carry on so that they can easily be stored in my suitcase (and used for shorter trips). For any toiletries that have a screw on lid that aren’t sealed, I usually put some clingfilm/saran wrap over the top before replacing the lid – that way it won’t spill all over your bag!

Toiletries (checked bag)Toiletries (carry on)
• Electric toothbrush + charger• Toothbrush
• Flossers• Retainers
• Deodorant• Travel toothpaste
• Lotion/Aquaphor• Razor(s)
• Hairbrush + hairties + bobby pins• Chapstick
• Face wash (2)• Travel shampoo
• Ibuprofen/Acetaminophen/Motion Sickness Pills• Travel soap
• Nail clippers + nail file• Prescription medication
• Thermometer• Travel sized lotion
• Hand sanitizer• Travel hand sanitizer
• Retainer cleaner
• Hairspray (I have an anti lice spray I like to use when working in schools – by no means necessary)
• Neosporin
• Starter pack of bandaids
• Airborne (because I’m paranoid)
• Perfume (not a priority, but if I have room, it reminds me of home)
• Extra chapsticks

Toiletry packing tip: Bring painkillers from the US. Ibuprofen and acetaminophen can be harder to get in France (just because they aren’t over the counter), tend not to be as strong in my experience, and come in smaller packets. If you’re someone who uses these OTC medications, or just likes to have them in your purse, bring a decent supply with you, since the availability in France may not suit your needs!

After those necessities are packed, I have a list for electronics. Most of these go in my personal backpack that comes with me on the plane, but since there are so many cords these days, it’s helpful to write them all out, so here they are!

  • Chargers
    • Phone/iPod
    • Laptop
    • Headphones
    • Fitbit
  • Headphones
    • Apple headphones (2 – one pair for iPod, one for iPhone since the docks have CHANGED)
    • Wireless noise cancelling headphones for the flight
  • iPod
  • Laptop + case
  • Adapters (This one is my favorite because it has USB ports, multiple outlets, and even has a nightlight, but any will do. I usually bring at least two – the big one and then a smaller one that’s more suited for travel)
  • Extension cords (this can also be purchased in France, but I highly recommend investing in an extension cord with a French plug. It will make it so much easier to plug multiple adapters into one source of electricity, especially if where you live doesn’t have a ton of outlets. It will also let you have more freedom regarding where you move your plugs! Again, I’ve bought one already hence my packing it, but you can – and should – purchase it in France. This will undoubtedly go in my checked bag)

Finally, I have my list for miscellaneous things. This is my list for anything that doesn’t fit in my above categories, but that I feel I’m likely to potentially forget (or that I just want to check off to have a sense of accomplishment with it).

  • Journal
  • Paperwork for France (I have a folder dedicated for France paperwork)
    • Arrêté de Nomination
    • Birth certificate
  • Photos (both personal for decorating my living space and ID photos)
  • Glasses
  • Covid-19 Test (hopefully unique to 2020)
  • Passport(s)
  • Wipes for the plane
  • Face shield
  • Masks for the plane (separate from the ones going into my suitcase)

That’s what I use as my base line for packing! If you made it this far, thank you for reading! I hope it was somewhat helpful and offers some guidance when it comes to packing for TAPIF. Remember, you can always buy items of clothing/most things you might need in France if you forget them/find you need something you didn’t bring! Let me know if I forgot anything, or if you have any questions about packing for an extended period of time abroad!

Official arrêté and August updates

I’m not sure I understand how it’s almost the end of August, but here we are. After what feels like ages, I can say with a fair degree of confidence that I still am not confident in what I will be doing with my life going forward. I don’t say this in a “the world is bleak and I have no future” kind of way (although it does feel that way somedays), but just in a “things aren’t as certain as I’d like them to be, and that’s stressful” kind of way. That being said, things are still moving along, albeit at a glacial pace, so I figured I’d write a little update.

As promised in July, I received my official Arrêté de Nomination on 21 August with the beautiful stamp from the DIRECCTE office. I was actually quite impressed with the fact that it came in when they said it would. If circumstances were “normal” this year, assistants in the Dijon academie would now be able to apply for their visa, but as we all know, “normal” is the last word anyone would ever use to describe 2020. Everyone is still stuck in this weird limbo of not knowing what’s truly going on, but being told that the program is happening (insert rising panic levels here).

Official Arrêté de Nomination for TAPIF with stamp from DIRECCTE office
What the DIRECCTE stamp looked like for those placed in Dijon. Located in the lower right corner of the Arrêté de Nomination

Since I don’t need a visa to do the program because of my EU citizenship, I have clearance to do the program regardless of how any travel bans impact Americans, which I’ll be honest, is a mixed blessing. In other years where this would make things much easier, it’s unfortunately complicated them this time around. Where I usually would have unimpeded entrance to France, I now have to first enter the EU through the country of my second citizenship, and then go onto France, which lengthens the journey by several hours. That within itself isn’t a massive deal, although a tad inconvenient, but actually making myself buy the plane ticket(s – have to book multiple legs to get to Paris) feels like such a daunting task. Every time I entertain that idea (which is more often than I’d like to admit), I think about the possibility of France cancelling in person teaching and withdrawing the program, or France closing its borders before I’d be set to fly, and sending me back to square one all over again. I’m very grateful that I don’t have to deal with the stress of getting a visa, or wondering if they’ll start being issued soon (as of 23 August, work visas for Americans are not being issued), but while not getting the visa alleviates one stressor, it doesn’t get rid of them all. I also have to have a negative COVID-19 test taken within 72 hours before boarding my flight to Europe, which is an additional stressor in this whole thing, but that’s a different issue to be tackled after the tickets are bought.

On top of all the stress about booking my flight, I also feel like my brain is constantly vacillating on whether this is something I should be doing, given that I’d be working in schools, and in another country, far away from all my family. You know that song “should I stay or should I go”? That’s what I feel like every time I actually dedicate energy to thinking about the situation. I find that I overwhelm my brain and it’s very easy to shut down if I get too in my head about all the variables. I do really want to go to France, and I get excited every time I get an email from France or my prof ref, but I’m also nervous about the global situation, and what that means for me. I ALSO am concerned that if I stay at home and don’t go, that I’ll be unemployed for potentially a decent amount of time (not for lack for trying), or that I won’t make any progress on what were my personal goals, and that’s not an exciting outlook to have, either. I’m not sure if I’ll ever feel absolute confidence in whatever I choose to do, but I’m hoping I’ll have a moment of clarity at some point (and hopefully soon).

ANYWAY. That was some decent word spillage onto the page, but the good news is that most school personnel should be back in the office in France starting Monday, 24 August, so fingers crossed everyone will start getting more contact, and information at that point. It’s hard to know whether to book a flight when things might not happen, but I don’t know if we’ll really know until October 1 comes around. Obviously, everything is still touch and go, and frustratingly day to day, but I know that I, and everyone else doing TAPIF, aren’t the only ones in the world experiencing the effects of the global situation on this level. That doesn’t necessarily make the waiting and the decision making less stressful, but at least we aren’t alone. I’ve found a great support network in the other assistants for this year’s cohort, and I’m immensely glad for it (shoutout to the ever popping Discord chat – if you know, you know).

As August rolls to a close, it’s remarkable to me how quickly the process has gone by since I was accepted, considering that I haven’t been doing that much in my daily life (or at least, not as much as before everything shutdown). It’s hard to believe that if everything aligns, I’ll be in France this time next month, which is a weird statement under the best of circumstances, but especially right now. I’m not expecting any decision making to become easier in the coming weeks, or for there to be a sudden burst of clarity that wasn’t there before. I hope that one day I will read these pre-France posts back and laugh at how silly I was to be stressed, or at least have a “remember when” moment. Until then, we persist with the potential of new adventure in France! A (hopefully) bientôt!

Arrêté de Nomination

Hello again from your favorite “stressed out about moving to France” blogger! Okay, maybe not favorite, but a girl can dream, right? This process is still very much day by day, but things are moving along, so take that information and do with it what you will. As I promised to document my journey, here is the continuation of my progess, and what’s going on, in my journey of getting to France.

More communication! I got an email on 23 July from the rectorat de Dijon with some logistical explanations of the process, along with paperwork that I needed to fill out/have. This included an accusé de reception (a document I signed to accept my position), OFII paperwork (needed for the visa application), and my unofficial arrêté de nomination. I do want to clarify that not every assistant who heard from their rectorat got all of these documents – some got more, some got less so this isn’t in any way an indication of what all communication looks like, just what I happened to get! Anyway. It was very exciting to get another email from France, and to “know” of another person there who will be helping run the show once we arrive. I’ll admit that my heartbeat speeds up a little every time I see an email in French, but in a good way!

What’s an Arrêté de Nomination?

One of the most valuable pieces of paper that you will get when doing TAPIF is the arrêté de nomination. This is essentially your work contract. It’s needed for opening a bank account, (potentially) finding housing, and most importantly, for getting your visa. As I mentioned above, I received an “unofficial” arrêté (non-tampponnée). This means that it doesn’t have the official stamp from the DIRECCTE office that is needed to make this document valid for visa applications, or anywhere else where you need an official documentation of your work. If you are participating in TAPIF as an EU citizen, you don’t need the official arrêté to do the job since you don’t need a visa, but it’s always smart to have stamped documents while in France (the bureaucracy, my friends). Just because I’m still waiting for my official documentation, doesn’t mean that the unofficial arrêté is not valuable. Unofficial or official, it provides you with your schools, and which is considered your “principal” school. This is technically the school where you’ll have most of your contact, and where you should go first when you have a question. While you may have more hours at this school, I’ve got a 50/50 divide of my time (so far), so I should be divided with my time evenly at both the schools where I’m assigned.

What does an Arrêté look like?

In case you’re wondering if you’ve been sent your arrêté, scan the document for the words “arrêté de nomination.” This will be on the paperwork regardless of whether it’s the stamped version or not. It lays out the contract dates, the title of your position, and your school(s) where you’ll be teaching. I had received this information already, but the last time I did the program, the arrêté was the first time I saw my schools’ names! I think that’s typically how you find out your schools, but since this year is a little topsy-turvy, some of us got contact in other forms before the arrêté. The arrêté also provides email addresses, and telephone numbers so you can introduce yourself to your school (usually the principal will see it), but since they’re all on holiday now through end of August, the rush to email seems to not be there (for me, at least). I have edited out the names of my schools since I’m not there yet, but I thought there may be some curiosity about what an arrêté looks like!

Arrête de Nomination for TAPIF

As an update of where things are in the process, there’s still no word on travel to France for Americans or anything in relation to visas. The rectrice in her email said that she would send the official arrêté de nomination as soon as she had it, but due to previous communication, I’m not anticipating that before the end of August at the earliest. We did, however, get a date for when teachers will be back at work for when we could reach out to them, which is at least a milestone to put on the calendar. I would recommend, regardless of whether you get an official or a non-official arrêté first, that you print the arrêté and put in a folder of “documents to bring to France.” I’ll write a post about all the paperwork I’m bringing with me once I get closer to my actual departure (fingers crossed), but it’s always a good idea to have multiple copies of things, so starting early will reduce stress on that end.

That’s my update for now, but as always, I hope I’ll be back with more as I continue on in this journey! À bientôt! Xx

First contact!

It happened! I received an email on Saturday 18 July at 12:15 am (yes, I was awake when I received it) from the person in charge of language assistants in the académie de Dijon. I was surprised to be receiving any kind of communication over the weekend, but especially so since I had resigned myself to not hearing anything from France until September. It was definitely a pleasant surprise, and I’m not complaining!

The email was fairly lengthy, with information about the region, and what the next steps would be. The best part, though? I got my school placements! I’ll be teaching in a high school (lycée), and a middle school (collège) in Dijon proper! I’m absolutely thrilled to be able to have the experience of working with both levels in secondary, but even more so to know that I’ll be in Dijon itself. There’s no guarantee for city placement when you participate in TAPIF, and even though I had requested specifically a big city, I was a little worried considering there aren’t any *big* cities in the académie de Dijon, and I had read somewhere that many assistants end up in medium sized cities. I’m truly over the moon to be somewhere that’s well connected via trains and public transport, and I would be lying if I said I haven’t already started doing research into all things Dijon and fun day trips I could potentially take. Ironically, based on some preliminary research, Dijon seems very similar to Angers, just on the other side of the country! I’m excited to see how my experience with TAPIF this time around compares to last time (pandemic notwithstanding).

In addition to my school placements, I was given contact information for my prof référent at each school. Your prof référent is a teacher at your school who is assigned to help you (the assistant) navigate the process of being an assistant, and to help you get settled into the position. I immediately (or rather, next morning), reached out to both of them, introducing myself. I’ve already heard back from one, but not the other – not surprising though, considering it was the weekend when I reached out to them.

Unfortunately, this email did not include an arrete, so I still don’t have any official paperwork for the position. I was told that due to delays (virus related and not), that I should not expect to have my arrete before the 20th of August. That means I still have at least a month before that comes through, so the waiting game is still not over. I don’t need the paperwork to apply for a visa luckily (you do if you need one, though), but I still can’t officially move to France, find housing, or open a bank account without that official piece of paper. Not that my moving is 100% happening either, but I’m trying not to focus on that.

Now that I have my schools, I can officially (oof, I’ve said that word a lot in this) start scoping out housing. It’s possible that my school will provide housing, or have resources for me, but I also want to do research on my own in case they don’t (again, there are no guarantees with this program). Usually, the recommendation is to wait until you arrive in France to start looking for housing, and to just book yourself an AirBnB for a minimum of a week while you go out and search. That’s not something I feel particularly comfortable doing this year, given that I want to quarantine myself as best as possible after I arrive in France to do my part in keeping the curve flat. Last time I participated, I had secured a room in a foyer before my flight even left American soil, so I’m looking down that route again as a possible option. The flexibility with a foyer would allow me the option to find alternate housing if I wanted once I was settled and felt safe doing so. Obviously, I’m not going to be making any decisions now regarding housing, but it’s definitely something at the front of my brain.

There’s still a lot up in the air, but I’m so pleased to have received that email over the weekend. Even though this latest update may seem benign, it means that things are certainly moving. I’m still very much having mixed thoughts about the whole thing, but I will admit that when I got the email, I was very excited and buzzing about my placement – so much so that I couldn’t go to bed for another hour! I’ll finish this post with an outline of what to do once you receive contact information for your prof référent/conseillier(e) so if you’re in this boat, you can stress less than I did when sending my introductory email:

Emailing your contact(s) in France

Once you get contact information for your prof référent/conseillier(e), you should reach out to them as soon as possible. I wrote a decent sized email, but you can write as much as you’re comfortable with in your email. I sent an identical one to each prof référent, only specifying the school where I would be teaching in the body of the email depending on who would be receiving that particular email. I wrote my email in French, but received a reply in English from one of my two contacts. If you’re teaching at the secondary level, there’s a higher likelihood English will be used in communication, but if you’re comfortable, I’d recommend writing the first email in French. Here’s what I included:

Subject: Bonjour de votre nouvelle(/nouveau) assistant(e)!

  • Brief introduction of myself: name, age, where I live, whether I’d lived in France/visited Dijon before
  • Asking for any information that would be relevant to my preparation for the year as an assistant (anything in particular I should bring from home for teaching?)
  • Asking for recommendations for housing in the area/what previous assistants have done for housing
  • Previous relevant experience if you want to add it (for me, this was my past participation in TAPIF)
  • Signed off asking them to let me know if they needed any further information from me, and reiterating how excited I was to work at (insert school) in the upcoming school year!
  • If you’re writing in French, be sure to sign off with “cordialement” rather than a simple “merci”

There you have it! You don’t have to write a super long email, especially since you’ll probably have more questions based on their reply (I know I did). Ask whatever is most “urgent” for you to know now (such as whether housing will be provided, or if there are any recommendations), as opposed to something you can wait to discover (which bank branch you should use, or your hours). Considering that my first contact from them was in July, there’s still a lot that they probably don’t know, and things that will develop between now and my (hopeful) departure.

Once you’ve formulated your email, click SEND and you’re good to go 🙂 Hope that was semi helpful – I know I fretted over the content for a while, but I know that they expect these kinds of questions, especially in a first email. Just be yourself (corny, I know) and send that puppy off to France (electronically, of course).

Let the planning for French adventures continue! À bientôt!

The wait continues…

If you’re a theatre person, you’ll understand when I say that I feel like that bit in “I know it’s today” where Sutton Foster just belts out “the waiting, the waiting, the WAIIIIIIITING” at the moment. For everyone else, it’s a song from Shrek the musical and Fiona is singing about being stuck in her tower her whole life. My waiting is not that extreme, but it certainly does feel long. I made a decision to document my experience with TAPIF this time around more, and this is my attempt at doing so. I feel like it may be boring to read, but not only am I trying to get my writing skills up to snuff for whenever I can get to doing more (which hopefully won’t be too long from now), but also because this year’s program is taking place during such extenuating circumstances. We’re truly navigating uncharted territory, and while that’s always an element of that within the program, this is on another level.

This program is a lot of hurry up and wait, especially in the stages before actually getting to France, and this element has certainly been exacerbated by the current situation and travel restrictions. After clicking accept on my initial acceptance email at the end of June, there was radio silence* from the program until 14 July (Bastille Day, ironically). An update! Okay, more like a check in, but at least it was some kind of communication? It was basically an email letting us know that they’re monitoring the travel situation (nothing concrete there), and that our dossiers were being sent to France, and to expect communication from our schools either within the next two weeks, or in September. Yup, you read that right… SEPTEMBER. This is because the French will be on holiday from late July until the end of August, so if your arrete doesn’t come in before they leave, you’ll be on hold until September, which is an added stressor. Honestly, classic French behavior, but it does elevate the heart rate a bit. I do want to mention that this time frame is not abnormal during normal years – there are many assistants who don’t get their arretes until September, but usually the process starts earlier than mid-July. Now I’m just crossing my fingers and toes that my school will send me my arrete before they go on break to at least alleviate one element of this very lengthy waiting process.

Image of Promenade du Bout Du Monde at sunset in Angers, France
Notice the nervous excitement (and jet lag) on my face from my first time living in France

Usually, there’s all kinds of buzz on the Facebook group about when to book flights, when the ball will get rolling in terms of assignments, and people already planning for their many travels during the eight weeks of paid holiday (yes, eight weeks, pretty lush). This time, the group is filled with posts asking about the visa situation, quarantine regulations, and whether the program will actually run. Currently, work visas are not being issued, and are not under the exemption list of Americans allowed into France. As such, American assistants are not guaranteed entry in France to even begin the program at this point, which is definitely a cause for stress. I completely understand France’s perspective with not wanting to let citizens from the US in what with how the situation is being handled here, but at the same time, it was the French government that hired the assistants in the first place. Wishful thinking I know, but I’ve already had the rug pulled out from under me once with an international job this year, I don’t know that I could handle the disappointment of it happening again. As such, we’re all in limbo waiting for news from France, or any updates that will give clarity about our status as workers in France. I’m lucky that I don’t need a visa because of EU dual citizenship, but ironically, that doesn’t immediately allow me entry into France, either with the current travel restrictions and parameters. If things don’t change, I will have to fly via the country of my dual citizenship first to gain entry into the EU, then onto France, which is an added layer of fun in the journey of finding flights. Lastly, there’s a big question about quarantining – will it be required? Should I quarantine at the airport? Do I need to arrive in France two weeks earlier than planned to accommodate for that? I’m mentally preparing myself to quarantine currently because I don’t want to be the American that causes France to shut down entirely, but those kind of questions are evidence of how different this year of TAPIF is going to be, and the kind of questions participants are having to ask. It’s daunting enough to move to another country under the best of circumstances, now I also have to think about how I could provide food for myself during a two week quarantine without interacting with anyone (amongst other things). It’s enough to make you second guess your participation, and whether it’s a *smart* thing to do in light of everything going on in the US and the rest of the world.

I’m hopeful that my next update will contain information about my actual school placement, and hopefully better news on the situation of getting over to France. I’m already doing my research on acquiring masks (loads and loads of masks) for life in France, and for the 15+ hour journey over to Europe. If anyone has any advice on how to reduce my anxiety about the flight itself, I would gladly welcome it. I know that I’m approaching the situation with some ambivalence, and much as I want to be over the moon excited about going to France, I worry that I might not be doing the right thing by going over there. I may be escaping the way the US is handling the pandemic, but is that fair of me to escape to France and put the onus on them? That being said, I worry that if I stay at home in the US, I will still be unemployed, isolated, and with no change in my situation from where I am now. Going to France is directly in line with my goal of ending up in Europe, and working there, and I’d be lying if I said that I’m not thinking about the benefits of being there for that goal. It’s definitely a conundrum in some ways, and what I wouldn’t give for it to be more straightforward not only for me, but for everyone else taking part in the program. It’s very much a day by day situation, and that goes for my mindset towards it all as well.

So here we are, back to more waiting and waking up every morning hoping for an email from France. I’m not sure if this update is really beneficial for anyone or more just a brain dump of my own, but it’s occupied some time and deviated my brain away from all the (many, MANY) thoughts I’m having about France. I’m trying to remain cautiously optimistic amidst it all, and while I’m not getting my hopes all the way up, I’m not letting them fall either.

*Side note: I would just like to clarify that communication with TAPIF is fairly absent always. The lack of updates is not inherently due to the pandemic, and it’s important to know that this is the same situation I had when I participated in 18-19. Between my acceptance in April, and leaving for France in September, I probably got three or four emails, so this in no way is something new, but is definitely something that can be frustrating about the program… especially during a pandemic.

Longing to have those quintessentially French roofs as a view once more